Parental Behaviours make for an uncontrolled experiment on their own children as a child tries to make sense of parents and then creates their own Subconscious Rules about Parental Behaviour from the perspective of a young child.

Domestic Violence as an example.
Daddy gets angry and hits Mummy. Mummy is in pain and crying. Child is upset and starts crying as well. Mummy goes to comfort the child – “It’s OK sweetie, Mummy is OK. See, Mummy is smiling and happy, everything is OK.”

The child sees Mummy happy and smiling so it must be OK. So the child creates a Rule and files it deep in its Subconscious Mind, “It is OK to Hit Mummy“. The child then goes on to develop Learned Behaviours that support its new Rule. There are Three Behavioural outcomes from this Rule:
1 Aggressor
2 Victim
3 Sometimes Aggressor Sometimes Victim
People carry most of their childhood Rules and Learned Behaviours with them for most of there lives. History repeats itself. Parents stuff up their children who in turn stuff up their own children. Nobody bothers to look at their Rules.